ÉLISE: But more specifically, back to anal pleasure ?
CHRISTIAN: On the more hedonistic side, prostatic pleasure is not the only source of anal pleasure, but only one of its components, even if it is one of its highlights.
In fact, for some people, men and women, there can be first and foremost the pleasure of the sensation of dilation, of enlargement of the anus. Feel the slow and progressive opening.
For others, will be added the pleasure of the sensation of filling, with one or more fingers being inserted or by using a plug, a dildo or a whole series of various and varied accessories of sometimes impressive sizes! The practice of “fisting”, the introduction of the whole fist into the anal cavity, mixes these two intense sensations of enlargement and filling. But at the moment anal fisting is mostly practiced in the gay community.
Still for both men and women, there is the orgasm of the coccyx, which requires a little practice for both the doer and the receiver. The idea is to stimulate with the fingertips the small cavities on either side of the end of the spine. This can provoke a fulgurant orgasm that goes up the spine to the top of the skull. I will come back to this orgasm which is relatively unknown and little practiced in a future blog.
To reach a prostate orgasm, its stimulation by massage must be gentle and with particular attention.
The Taoists say that it is in this area that the energy of the earth and sexual energy are combined and transformed before ascending to the higher centres to connect us with another dimension.
Finally comes prostatic pleasure, which is what we are concerned with today and which is specific to men, since women do not have a prostate. Although it is a form of pleasure which is close to female pleasure (since it comes more slowly, more progressively), the prostatic orgasm will lead to a type of orgasm whose onset we will not be able to control.
With this type of orgasm in mind, it is important to know that the prostate is a very innervated organ and not protected by an epidermis, so it is very fragile and very sensitive. Therefore, to reach a prostate orgasm, its stimulation by massage must be gentle and with particular attention. A subtle touch and short nails are essential!
For men, alone or simply wishing to explore on their own, before sharing this adventure with their partner, there is a toy ” aneros “ particularly adapted for this practice. In fact, when introduced, it stimulates both inside and outside, and thanks to the abdominal breathing, contractions will participate in the slow progression of pleasure.