The orgasmic trance
Often people may enter some form of trance, which is in fact the beginning of an intense orgasmic state, which can be prolonged and amplified as desired. In a tantric sexual ritual, it is a question of savouring a moment of presence, of sharing, of creative and nourishing exploration for each one. We call this the valley of pleasure. The slow path to pleasure and feeling allows us to reach degrees of pleasure and sensuality, often much more intense and nourishing than an orgasm. Remember that an orgasm is a sudden rIs
Is an anal sex ritual possible?
Yes, it is! This is also an energetic exchange between the Yin / Yang polarities. Even when they are partners of the same sex. Because the polarities regulate themselves by establishing a positive and negative field which allows the energy to circulate rather than a release of tension that lasts only a few fractions of a second and exhausts the man’s vital energy.
Find a real conclusion to the ritual
The ritual is now coming to an end. Remember that in the Tantric lineage, orgasm (peak orgasm) is not a point of honour, let alone ejaculation. To close the ritual, the partners can face each other so that they can express their emotional state, while being careful not to slip into detailed analysis (this can come later or at another time if necessary). Value “what is” in the here and now and not “what should be”. It is a question of expressing through the “I”, the feeling of the moment (“I felt this at such and such a moment…”). And of course, don’t forget to thank the other person for the quality of their presence.
The ritual may end with a small snack prepared in advance, where each person feeds the other. With a moment of tenderness, or perhaps a new dance, with perhaps even more slowness and less intention. And when everyone feels satisfied by the experience: extinguish the candles, kiss each other good night.
· Article by Christian Gouttenoire ·